Blog #64 – THE IMPORTANCE OF ACCEPTING CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM
If each of us is to develop to our full potential, we need to realize the importance of constructive criticism. There will be times during our lives when we will hear comments about ourselves that are not complementary. Although our first instincts are to retaliate, we should analyze what was said to determine its intent. If what was said was intended for you to make a change that would be helpful, you should be willing to make the change. Do not hesitate in asking why the change was suggested. Make sure that you know the difference between constructive criticism and destructive criticism.
There will be times when someone’s intentions are to hurt you. Be careful in believing what you are told without reflecting on its validity. Never make a quick decision without contemplating its repercussions. There will be individuals that have selfish motivates and are not genuinely interested in providing helpful advice. If possible, discuss the advice with a trusted individual to have a different perspective on whether it is constructive or destructive.
If you have developed your skills on self-evaluation, you should consider carefully anything that you are told. Any criticism you are given needs to be scrutinized. You can improve in many ways when you surround yourself with people that you trust and those that you respect. Be cautious when receiving criticism from strangers. Make sure that you always make an informed decision. Weigh the consequences. Although you may think that you are self-reliant, be aware that constructive criticism is important.